Sheema Kermani — Pakistan’s trailblazing classical dancer, activist, and theatre artist — has long been a voice for women’s rights and minority empowerment.
Even at 74, she continues to inspire generations through her fearless activism and art.
In a recent interview with Frieha Altaf, Kermani opened up about her life, her activism, and the bold choices that have defined her journey.
One of the most powerful revelations she shared was about her decision not to have children. Sheema revealed that it was a conscious and deliberate decision — one that was fully supported by her husband.
She explained that motherhood was never something she personally desired, and in many ways, choosing not to become a mother became an extension of her fight against patriarchal norms.
“Because I’m a woman, must I be a mother?” she questioned, highlighting the societal pressures that often dictate a woman’s worth based on her ability to bear children.
By rejecting this expectation, Sheema Kermani not only took control of her own narrative but also sent a powerful message about autonomy and choice.
Her stance has sparked debate online.
Many users have praised her for living life on her own terms, emphasizing that personal choices, especially when agreed upon by both partners, should not be policed by society.
Supporters have lauded her for challenging outdated expectations, arguing that a woman’s value should never be tied solely to motherhood.
Yet, as expected, not everyone agrees.
Some traditional voices continue to criticize her decision, reflecting how deep-rooted societal expectations around women and motherhood still are.
Regardless of the differing opinions, Sheema’s story serves as a reminder that true empowerment means the freedom to choose — whether that choice aligns with societal norms or not.
By standing firm in her beliefs, Sheema Kermani has once again proven that rebellion against oppressive structures can take many forms — and sometimes, simply saying “no” is revolutionary.
